Well after all that planning it’s done. Christmas is over and I am spending it in complete peace and alone. Having some great self reflection me time and loving it. Friends react with horror “on your own on Christmas day????” as if it should never happen. What have people got about being alone anyway?

Lauretta told me off about the “no sex before marriage” line on my Match profile so I changed it. I don’t even know if I really mean it anyway. I told her I was looking for a gorgeous looking 6 feet 5 inches black man and when God sends him my way will I really be able to wait?

I wrote about no sex before marriage here on my blog

http://inspirationalguidance.com/2008/11/whats-so-wrong-about-sex-before-marriage/

You should go visit and check out the responses. There is a response from a guy called Vincent Wright that is so excellent it really made me want to wait!