My daughter came to me and told me she has had enough of blogging. After writing for over 18 months – sometimes twice a day she has run out of steam and doesn’t want to do it anymore, she just can’t be bothered.. I was getting her to blog because

1. She is a writer and its a good way to be out there and get known/build a following

2. I don’t want her waiting tables in uni and her blog can provide her with an income if she starts now

But never one to push my agenda I decided to leave her free to choose. I told her 12 months from now when she is in university and looks back on this day she will probably wonder how things might have been. Hindsight is a wonderful thing. I also let her know that since hitting 18 in September she is now free to sign up for sites where she can advertise and make money with her blog.

She went away – and 2 hours later came back and told me she has added 30 new blog posts!

2010 for me is about letting go and letting God. I am tired of goal setting and am handing my life over!

The thing is I have no idea what to do with myself now that I have decided that

As the new year is in our midst and ‘the season of good will’ begins. I reflect and I find myself thinking about the future – around this time I think about the changes I am going to make. In 2010 I will be focusing on good health, using my spiritual and creative side more, becoming even more focused, writing and persuing my studies. Every year I reflect and make changes, each year I achieve my goals next year I also aim to achieve my dreams.

Lauretta

I joined eharmony (nice site) and Match.com

Met a guy on eharmony (there are all of 2 black men on there so I won’t be around there for more than a month!) and he is really nice but I have nothing to say to him. 20 minutes into a conversation and I run out of steam – which is just not me. I am not the worlds biggest talker, I leave that to Lauretta but I can hold a conversation and I can usually initiate one too or breathe life into one if it is dying.

I just have nothing in common with this man – such a shame.